Happy couple

Happy couple

Saturday, March 26, 2011

She is home...

Abby is home, she got discharged yesterday. We didn't really tell anyone yesterday because yesterday was our Grandma's 90th birthday and we wanted to surprise her. So Abby showed up at the party and surprised everybody.
She is doing pretty good, the antiviral she is on makes her feel sick but she is doing ok. It makes her skin very dry so that is a little painful. And she has a hard time regulating her temperature so she is always hot or cold. She will have to be on that med until her virus is gone so hopefully the virus goes away quickly. Abby is eating a little bit more which is good but she still gags sometimes. All in all Abby is improving she has a hard time seeing it but she really is improving. And she is still beautiful as ever and once she is off of that med she will improve even more.
Abby and my parents would still love visitors at the house. Visitors really break up the day for them so feel free to visit.
Our prayer is that Abby will stay home this time and that she will be able to heal quickly and get off of that medicine. We are so pleased that she is home again and that she was able to celebrate with us last night.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

What a difference a week makes...

So last Thursday things were looking pretty grim and we were all very scared. But today things are looking up in a big way. I don't want to jinx it but Abby is on the mend. The doctors kind of freaked us all out last week when they started talking about all the possibilities with her CMV pneumonia. They wanted to move her to SICU and they were talking about an antibiotic that would take her kidney and having to intibate and all sorts of scary things. But my parents knew better they did not let them move her ti SICU. They did the immunoglobulin and it went well her last dose is today. She isn't needing as much oxygen anymore and her lungs sound really good. Her viral load is down that is the number that measures the virus in her blood it started at 6.8 it is now 4.5 so it is on the downward trend which is good. It means she is getting better which makes us happy.
She will have to stay on the antivirul until her viral load is down all the way. She is doing so good though she looks very good and she is eating a lot more then she has been. She still gags a lot and sometimes throws up but we have determined the cause is reflux so they are treating that.
Her drains are getting a lot of stuff out of her stomach which is very good. And on Sunday her stomach where her incision is opened up a little bit and more of that fluid leaked out everywhere. This was a little alarming for Abby she was on a walk when it started leaking. But the doctors are actually glad that the "stuff" in her abdomen was finding an out.
Abby has been walking a lot and is not as sick as she has been . So yet again we proved the doctors wrong. She is a fighter and she proved that once again. She isn't out of the woods yet but we can see the light through the trees. The doctors think she can go home by Monday we aren't holding are breath but are hoping for the best.
Abby has been through more than I any of us can imagine and she has stayed strong and doesn't complain much. I hope this journey will come to an end soon in a happy way. I feel like it is she has had so many complications but hopefully those are done.
She still would love visitors it helps break up the day she is in room 5206 at the U. It helps my parents too they need the distraction. And once she gets home they may need some help if anyone can sit with Abby for a few hours during the week let us know that would be a big help for my parents.
We are in awe of all the love and support we have received from our friends and family. We thank you for the prayers on our behalf. We have the best friends and family out there.
Please keep Abby in your prayers so she can continue to get well. Prayers work and she is the proof!

Friday, March 18, 2011

Another hurdle....

So yesterday the 17th We found out that Abby's CMV that she has has spread to her throat and her lungs. She has fluid in her lungs right now but her o2 saturation has been good. So yesterday was a bad day. The doctors came in and said she has CMV in her throat and lungs and then they said the antibiotic we might have to give will probably kill her kidney. Then the next doctor came in and said we want to move her back to SICU. So my mom said we are going for a walk and they left with Abby and had lunch. She was sick of bad news and who can blame her.
The Doctors decided to try an immunoglobulin to fight the CMV and any possible bacteria caused by the CMV. The fear with this medication is a severe allergic reaction with anaphylaxis because it is blood product and she has had similar ones before so her body could recognize it and be allergic to it. They started it last night and she did okay with it which was a huge relief. One of the reasons they wanted her in the ICU was in case she did react badly to the IG they could react. So I watched her till about 1 A.M. and she didn't have any adverse reactions so we were relieved. We are still waiting on the sputum sample to come back to see if she has bacterial pneumonia or if it is just the CMV. We are hoping it is just the CMV so they don't have to do that antibiotic that will ruin her Kidney.
They also are running a test to see how far into the CMV she is. It tests the DNA so they can tell if it is in early stages or if it is starting to go away. So today we are hoping for some good news.
We did get a little good news yesterday, one of the doctors that was looking at her pancreas problem and her drain and stomach fluid. He said he thinks that they are getting rid of all of that fluid with the drain where it is placed now. It is getting a lot of fluid out now more than it ever has. He also thinks once they get rid of all of that fluid the pancreas will heal. And that means no surgery. We are hoping that is the case.
Abby is a fighter and we all know that so we know she can beat this. Her doctor said he might have to take her through hell again but he said he would bring her right back out of it. She has been through a lot already so we hope that she can beat this with ease and not to much pain and suffering. She was in pretty good spirits yesterday so she is ready for the fight.
We are all amazed by our Abby Jean she is the strongest person I know and we all can learn from her.
Keep fighting Abby Jean we are right here fighting along side you. We know you can beat this virus with all your facilities in tact. We have faith, so stay strong and know you have everybody who loves you on your side and that is a lot of people.

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Wishing for a happy ending soon...

So things have been very up and down lately for miss Abby Jean. She is back in the hospital again she has been there for a week and a half. Her reason for being readmitted is she went to a clinic appointment and she was dehydrated and her fluid pockets in her stomach were bigger. She had also been spiking fevers. So the plan was to admit her for 48 hours and reposition her drains and do IV antibiotics. Well just like this whole last 5 months things didn't go according to plan. Abby was having fevers because she has CMV a virus they thought she had a month ago which they decided she didn't have. Well now she has it for sure. So we are a little frustrated because the lab tests she was doing a few times each week were supposed to be testing for CMV and they weren't. So she got more sick than she should have.
And since they repositioned her drains she has been in a lot of pain. She has been needing to take more pain meds so her blood pressure has been dropping a bit. So the doctors decided to give her a lot of fluids to increase her blood pressure. But like the other dozen times they have tried that she 3rd spaces all of the fluids which means it doesn't stay in her vessels it leaches out into her tissues and causes major edema. So again she has 30+ lbs of water on board again and so it makes it very hard for her to move.
Now on top of all of that she is having issues with her skin, she is peeling very badly. We have no idea why the doctors think it is a reaction to meds. But no one really knows why, but whatever it is she is in a lot of pain. Her skin just burns it is so sad. I was with her yesterday and it broke my heart. She just hurts everywhere and she is so frustrated. She is also having a hard time keeping food down and eating at all. Her pancreas issue is the reason for that. So we are all ready for her to feel like herself again. My dad made an appointment for Mayo Clinic in Arizona for some pancreas specialists. We are hoping for her to get a little better to make the trip her appointment is for March 28th.
So tonight I pray that Abby will feel better that she will eat and stop throwing up. I also pray for her to not be in pain anymore. So she can get stronger and get healthy again. We are all heartbroken for Abby right now. She has kept her chin up through all of this and her strength continues to amaze me!
For all of you friends and family she could really use visitors. Time moves so slowly during the days. And her and my mom are just there waiting for time to pass. So if you have a moment to pop in that would be great she is in room 5204 on the fifth floor.